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Old 02-14-2016, 06:04 AM   #7411
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It's probably also a good idea to stop befriending every single bipolar, co-dependent, threateningly self destructive girl you meet. You're not in high school anymore. Real talk. REAL TALK.
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Old 02-14-2016, 08:30 AM   #7412
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Old 02-25-2016, 07:01 AM   #7413
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Went on a date with a girl I've had a crush on since I was 8, it went pretty well.
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Old 02-25-2016, 01:41 PM   #7414
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I ended the friendship with her today. She basically was not accepting any blame for hurting me so badly. She tried to play it off like it was all in my head and that I was invalidating her feelings when all I asked was for an apology for her not telling me for 2 years that she never liked me that way and she never had any intentions of actually treating it seriously. She tried to use the fact she never actually told me she liked me that way as an excuse. All because she could not tell me the truth 2 years ago I had a breakdown. I still can't friggin eat. She was like I am not apologizing for how I feel when that is not what I was asking for. When I told her we were done and explained why she was like "up yours buddy. I tried being nice and this is what I get, haha. Peace" and then she blocked me before I could.

I ended a friendship with someone I care about more then anyone on this planet all cause they could not apologize to me.
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Old 02-25-2016, 02:08 PM   #7415
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Sounds to me like you got burned because what was an obsession to you was a normal human relationship to her and now you're butt mad that she never told you something she never felt the need to say.
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Old 02-25-2016, 02:09 PM   #7416
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Went on a date with a girl I've had a crush on since I was 8, it went pretty well.
Huzzah for this though. Glad it went well, Jake.
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Old 02-25-2016, 03:03 PM   #7417
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Sounds to me like you got burned because what was an obsession to you was a normal human relationship to her and now you're butt mad that she never told you something she never felt the need to say.
She still should have said something. She knew how I felt. She agreed to go on dates when she got back and see where it went but was never being fully truthfull. She broke the news to me by dating another guy as soon as she got back. Then she refused to take responsibility for not telling me the truth. This was after 2 years of me telling her how excited I was to go on this date.
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Old 02-25-2016, 03:09 PM   #7418
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Wow, you do not "deserve" an apology. That's such a shitty attitude to have.
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Old 02-25-2016, 03:22 PM   #7419
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If roles were reversed I would be apologizing to her especially knowing how badly the person was hurt.
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Old 02-25-2016, 03:25 PM   #7420
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That's fine. It's also not the case. It sucks that you got burned on this. The less time you dwell on this the faster you can move on with the rest of your life.
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Old 02-25-2016, 04:15 PM   #7421
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I feel bad for this girl. Sorry she has to put up with this. Alllllll of this.
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Old 02-25-2016, 05:07 PM   #7422
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If roles were reversed I would be apologizing to her especially knowing how badly the person was hurt.
But the roles aren't reversed. She does not owe you an apology. Throughout all this train wreck it seemed like the signs were pretty clear. Move on and learn from your mistakes.
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Old 02-25-2016, 07:51 PM   #7423
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I don't like internet gang up time, and this situation is ripe for it. I think it's clear to everyone, including you, that you did not have a healthy relationship with this woman. It's pretty obvious if you're so worked up you're having trouble eating. I really don't feel like I can convince you of that any more than you yourself can, since you have all the facts. In the end, I guess it doesn't really matter. It seems pretty clear that whatever relationship you two had is gone.

Just don't spend too much time looking back. It's not worth it.
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Old 02-25-2016, 08:04 PM   #7424
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TL:DR version: Jeff got burned badly, Jake got success with his date, Ace stills answers the question 'what base are you on?' and Grieves is looking to cross straws with Jake again.

What will happen next? Find out in the next episode of Fanboys Z KAI.

*dundudndun duduuuuunnnnnn*
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Old 02-25-2016, 08:05 PM   #7425
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Jake and I are the straw crossing masters
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Old 02-25-2016, 08:08 PM   #7426
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You two spent too much time in the hyperbolic time chamber perfecting the technique.
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Old 02-25-2016, 08:13 PM   #7427
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THIS IS THE BEST CHAMBER EVER
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Old 02-25-2016, 09:04 PM   #7428
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Jake and I are the straw crossing masters
... straw crossed lovers, even?


i'm so fucking sorry
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Old 02-26-2016, 12:09 AM   #7429
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We spent the equivalent of three years practicing on giant margaritas. Now we can do it instinctively.

Also girl came by again tonight, surprised me, ended up having a long nice evening. I am smitten like kitten mittens.
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Old 02-26-2016, 03:27 PM   #7430
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Next time she goes to Jake's place

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Old 02-26-2016, 03:34 PM   #7431
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Yo great use of Terry Crews, he is a beautiful man.
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Old 02-26-2016, 10:53 PM   #7432
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Back from date, had a ton of fun, clicking pretty well with this girl and I feel good about it, plus she's a total cutie, case in point:

Spoiler for Obnoxious:
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Old 02-28-2016, 04:27 PM   #7433
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Not going to pursue that one girl anymore. Of all our conversations of the last few months, I've started all of them. So I'm pretty sure she's not interested in me that way.
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Old 02-29-2016, 01:57 PM   #7434
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Probably not if that's the case. At least you're wise enough to see that.

Better luck in the future though!
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